Lose control

Do you ever get confused about whether you are in love/lust because you are addicted to love? Or addicted to the person you love? Do we always love the same way even when it's a different person? Do we ever stop to compare (whether or not we do so consciously)? When do we stop caring to learn more about the person we see? Does it become something else once we get somewhat comfortable being physical with the person? Do we mix physical intimacy with emotions just to have better sex? Do we look for a balance between giving and receiving, and is hope the only thing we can count on when we know it's lopsided?

It takes no time to fall in love
But it takes years to know what love is

When will I know the answers? Or will I ever?